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Communication Skill Exercise

Improve Communication Skills
With Active Listening

Try this communication skill exercise on active listening on your friends, family, work colleagues and even your boss.

You’ll learn a lot, and they will never know...

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The importance of good communication skills cannot be overemphasized.

As you improve your skills for communication, you will also improve your relationships and your work environment.

The communication lesson below is simple, and it won’t take an extra minute of your time.

And, even better, you can have some fun with it.

Effective communication skills are learned, and this communication lesson will help you improve yours...

Photo of man and woman with great nonverbal communication.

Being assertive will help you be confident
with both verbal and non-verbal communication.

Does Your Communication Make Sense?

Often we give mixed signals when we communicate with someone. Our body language is not congruent with our words. That simply means that we are saying one thing, and our body language is saying something else. For example :

“No, I didn’t take any chocolate,” he said as he looked down and fidgeted.
“I’m not really upset about it,” she said with tears in her eyes.
"Yah, yah.. I’m listening,” he said as he stared at the television.

When practicing active listening skills you are using both verbal and non-verbal communication, and, at the same time, you are maintaining focus and showing interest in what the other person is saying.

Everything that is happening, should make sense, and your words and body language should make sense together.

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Active Listening Communication

Throughout this communication skill exercise consider the below points:

How does active listening look and feel?
How does it feel to have someone REALLY listening and how does it feel to have someone HALF listening or not listening at all?
How often did you have some sort of an assumption when asking or listening to the other person?
How do small children ask a question?… Without assumption, just curiosity.

Communication Skill Exercise

Work on this communication lesson for at least a week. (I predict that, once learned, you will continue to use these practices.)

Your goal is to make your friends, family, work colleagues, employers, or the grocery store attendant (practically anyone!) talk more about their lives and situations.

You are going to practice being a good listener during this communication skill exercise.

Keep track of your findings in a journal or notebook.

Communication Lesson Rules
Using Active Listening

As an active listener you remove all judgment about the other person’s situation.
You do not give them any advice or your opinion – you just simply listen.
Do not do the talking – allow the other person to talk. Give them the freedom to express, to let go of anything they have "bottled up".
You may notice that if you nod your head at appropriate times it encourages them to talk more. Be aware of how your non-verbal cues change the conversation.
Be aware of how eye contact affects the flow of communication – if eye contact gets them talking more then make eye contact – if not, don’t.
If you look away and stare at something in the distance does it make them hesitate or stop talking? If so, then keep your focus on them – keep them chatting!
Use verbal cues during the conversation to encourage them to talk – “aha”, “oh yah”. (If you want any ideas – watch a talk show (like Opra) and see how the host gets a person to talk – or even slants the conversation when needed).

Practice being a good listener with your children.

Ask the lady at the grocery store where she got her necklace or who cuts her hair – and just listen without talking – nod your head – “wow”, “really?”.

Your Communication Lesson Record
What to Record

During this communication skill exercise, try experimenting with body language during the different conversations.

Observe and see what works and what doesn’t...

How does the person react when you lean forward?
What do they do when you make eye contact?
When you cross your arms?
When you look away while they are talking?
How does each body movement feel to you?
And how does it affect the flow of the conversation?
What do you think your body language is telling the other person?

Pay attention to the other person’s body language. Here are some things to notice and record:

Did their body language match their verbal communication?
Were they fidgeting, looking down, looking away?
Did they look directly at you when telling you something?
Or clear their throat at any time during the conversation? - How does their body language affect how you feel?
If it’s a person you dislike, and they lean towards you, how do you feel? - Or if it’s a friend, who touches your arm, how do you feel?

As you work on this communication skill exercise, be aware of how non-verbal communication affects your conversation and the meanings of your interaction.

If the person you are leaning toward, backs away. she is feeling uncomfortable. Giver her space.

If you lean on a table to indicate interest while your friend is chatting, notice her reaction – does she chat with more fervor or get shy and embarrassed with what she is saying?

We can all learn and improve our communication skills. And, doing so will enhance your relationships and, also decrease your stress and anxiety levels.

Knowing how to communicate well and feeling good about yourself is so important to being successful--in every aspect of your life!

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